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Thursday, February 21, 2013

When Last Have You Been Accountable For Your Own Actions?




Responsibility
My Role

References


Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, by Nathaniel Branden


Having responsibility is the duty or obligation to act. Taking responsibility is acknowledging and accepting the choices you have made, the actions you have taken, and the results they have led to. True autonomy leads to both having responsibility and taking responsibility. Taking responsibly is fulfilling your role in life. Responsibility is an essential element of integrity; it is the congruence of what you think, what you say, and what you do. Responsibility is essential for reciprocitytrust, and for maintaining symmetric relationships

Definitions

  1. Having a duty or obligation to act
  2. Acknowledging and accepting the choices you have made, the actions you have taken, and the results they have led to.
  3. Able to meet commitments made to yourself and others
  4. Keeping the promises you make.
  5. Doing everything you say you will do, or have lead others to expect from you. Do what you say!

Responsibility is a Choice


Responsibility without choice is torment. This is the tragic curse suffered by scapegoats and other innocent people falsely accused and wrongly blamed. Choice without responsibility is greed. This is the selfish attempt to get something for nothing that is the wasteful and harmful excess of cheaters, playboys, egotists, and tyrants. Escaping responsibility is at the root of the tragedy of the commons. Taking responsibility for our choices provides the symmetry of reciprocal exchange and the basis for trust. Responsibility is a congruence between the actions we choose and our values.Read on...